Love
Webster’s Dictionary defines “LOVE” as: (1) strong affection or liking for someone or something (2) a passionate affection of one person for another (3) the object of such affection; a sweetheart or lover.
Ever since I was old enough to remember I have been taught about “Love”. As a Christian I was taught that God is love, and I heard and read all the scriptures that pertained to love such as “Love thy neighbor as thy self” Lev.19:18, Mark 12:31, “Love your enemies and pray for those who despitefully use you” Mat.5:44, and then there are the two greatest commandments of all “Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.” Matt 22: 37-40.
Well as I got older I always wondered about “Love”. If I truly believe that the Bible is the infallible word of God and there are NO mistakes in the word of God then why do there seem to be such a conflict in all of these scriptures to me. I could not understand how I was supposed to “Love” my enemies? How was I suppose to “Love” thy neighbor as thy self, I didn’t know these people how am I suppose to feel “Love” for them? To me there was something about these scriptures that just did not fit. I had always prayed about this and asked God to show me what He was really saying in these scriptures. One day He gave me the answer and that answer would clear up all of the questions that I have had for so long. My definition or conception of “LOVE” was the problem all along. You see “LOVE” is an action not an emotion! Let me say that again….”LOVE” is and action NOT an emotion! The emotion felt inside toward someone else is a by-product of a continuing action toward that other person and vice versa.
When you look at these scriptures now with the right definition of love it all becomes very clear as to what God is telling us. There are over 250 scriptures in the New Testament alone that speaks on love. Most of these are commandments. Commandments are actions, things that we as Christians are to be doing. Now that we have determined the true definition of love let’s look at some of these scriptures and compare what we have learned. “Love thy neighbor as thyself”. Well if you do not really know your neighbor, how can you feel any emotional ties to that person or how can you love them the way you love yourself emotionally? If in fact that love is an emotion? But if you believe that love is an action well it becomes easy to love your neighbor. You just act toward and treat them with the kindness and respect that you would give yourself. And that is how God is putting it to us in this scripture. He tells us exactly how to treat our neighbor in the latter part of this scripture.
Let’s take another one. “But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;”. If we look at the first line of this scripture we will find that it’s a commandment as well. It says to “love your enemies”. Then it tells us how to love our enemies by telling us what we should be doing by praying for them, blessing them and doing good to them. These are all actions not emotions.
You can even take the scripture John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life”. When I look at this passage I see the action (love) that God has done for us. God so loved, when I look at this part and I look a little farther I see what action that God took, He “GAVE” His only Son. Now to me that is LOVE!
You know the word says that we as Christians should treat each other with love and bear one another’s burdens. How can we expect the world to look at us and want to become like us, if we can not even show LOVE to each other? We fight and bicker among ourselves and point fingers at each other and even condemn each other, when all the while we should be treating each other with kindness and humility and longsuffering. But not just to each other, we should be treating the world this way. This is the way you win souls for the Lord. There is an old saying that states “You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar”. How does this relate to love you may ask? Well I know that the world has enough trouble of it’s own with out taking on more trouble from the “church”, and if we really want to win the world over we better start acting with more love and kindness toward each other if we intend to win them over for Christ.
There are so many scriptures in the word of God about love that there is no way I can cover them all. I do know that Love conquers all and if we as Christians start to treat the rest of the world with “LOVE” that we could see a lot of people coming to know the Lord.